What do you want to NOT have to share with other people.
When our househelper arrived, I told her to just drink hot choco in the morning if she’s used to (because we have choco drink powder in the cupboard that’s been sitting there for more than a month) and told her she could eat some of the snack foods in there (thinking that she knew the protocol for eating something that isn’t hers and that is….ASK PERMISSION FIRST). After days, I had issues with that because she’s been eating a lot of our stocked snack foods without asking if it’s ok or not. The worst thing is, she just opens a pack of something on her own…as if it’s hers contrary to my sister who even asks if it’s okey to eat this or that. As much as I want to share something to our helper, I don’t want her to just get something from the cupboard and eat without permission.
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maybe, you should talk to her out front and tell her that, she might have misconceptions because of what you told her, not all people think the same and maybe she isn’t brought up the way me, you and your sister was.
hope you solve your problem soon